Hi, my name is Olena. I’m a dentist, and yes, I really do want to know how you brush your teeth. This is my first time on this site, and honestly? I’m still a little shocked that I even came here. My mom “hooked” me on this. Yes, my mom, who found a man here, now walks around happy, as if it’s her second graduation. She said: “Yan, stop it, try it, maybe this is fate, and not spam in direct messages.” Well… I tried. Why am I here? Because over the past two years, I’ve been relearning how to be myself. My ex was quite a “character.” He beat me, humiliated me, drove me to exhaustion, and the cherry on the cake: he stole my money and ran away. He left gracefully, without saying goodbye, but with my laptop under his arm. But I left earlier. With pride, without hysterics, with bare nerves, but in my right mind.
Since then:
Recovered. Underwent therapy.
Learned to love silence and good wine.
Strengthened my back (to carry all this strength and independence).And now Olena 2.0. A little tired, but real. I can laugh even after a hard shift.
I love black humor, but with a heart of gold.
I can recite the series “House M.D.” by heart.
I like stronger coffee and smarter men.
I can’t stand it when they play the silent game, we speak up right away, honestly and to the point.